Chinese modesty

I think we all should learn from the Chinese modesty. There is no other nation whose people are more modest than the Chinese.

What’s China really like in the eyes of foreigners? Which parts of Chinese culture are the most attractive? What are their personal experiences while learning Chinese language? Are there any touching stories that happened to them during their stay in China? You will find the answers here. After reading the following stories, don’t you have the desire to pick up your pen and put down something in Chinese about things around you?

Kim Lilia
Kyrgyzstan

To the Chinese, modesty is a virtue. Chinese people seldom exaggerate their own ability and value. They call their articles “my humble writing”, their own child “my humble child”, and their own house “my humble house”. If the Chinese say “I have not a single good point and I hope to learn from you”, that is just their way of speaking to show their own cultivation.

I had an unforgettable experience in this respect. After I came to China, I made friends with a Chinese gentleman. He works well and is very polite to others. One day, I went to KTV with a group of classmates, and he was invited to come with us. We vied with one another to hold the microphone to sing in the KTV box; but the Chinese gentleman sat by himself smiling and quietly listening to our singing. Asked to sing a song, he pushed the microphone aside with a smile, saying, “You sing. I’m not good at it.”

Some time after that, the institute held a singing competition. To my surprise, this Chinese friend took part in it. He sang an English song as marvelously as the original singer. But he had said he was not good at singing that day at KTV! He was being modest then. He did it so that we who came from a foreign country could have a good time. He placed well in the contest. And I got real understanding of Chinese modesty from the experience.

In my opinion, there is no other nation whose people are more modest than the Chinese. In my country, we have a saying: “Modesty is a virtue”. I think we all should learn from the Chinese virtue of being modest.


Confucius Institute Magazine 08

pdfPublished in Confucius Institute Magazine
Number 08. Volume III. May 2010.
View/Download the print issue in PDF

You may also like

By 

Email Newsletter

Pin It on Pinterest

Share This